BUA Family Pledge for Hosting Events
The intent of the BUA Family Pledge is to foster the health and safety of BUA students and to support parents and guardians in their efforts to keep children drug-, alcohol-, and tobacco-free. It was created by BUA parents and administrators. This is not a legally binding agreement, but is instead a statement of cooperation, open communication, and mutual support among BUA parents.
A list of those who agree to this pledge will be made available to BUA families via the online portal. If you are unwilling to sign this pledge, your feedback is appreciated. Please email Rosemary White or Stacey Weiskopf with questions or concerns.
Guidelines for Student Gatherings Outside of School
The following list has been developed by BUA parents and administration in consultation with other peer school handbooks. Most of the following guidelines are self-evident.
While socialization among students outside of school is a healthy and enriching part of teens’ development, potential for the use of alcohol and drugs by students at social gatherings is a concern for both parents and for BUA. In an effort to promote positive socialization among students, and to encourage open communication and support among parents, BUA and the BUAPN suggest the following guidelines:
- Be aware that in Massachusetts, it is illegal to provide alcohol to underage guests in your home, or to knowingly allow alcohol to be consumed by minors at your home.
- Talk with your child about your expectations and rules regarding alcohol and drugs. Remember that, despite their desire for privacy and independence, teens’ still need clear boundaries and guidance.
- If your child is invited to a party at another students’ home, don’t hesitate to contact the host’s parents.
- Be at home for the duration of a social gathering your child hosts at your home. Establish a guest list with your child in advance, both because it affords other parents the opportunity to be in contact with you, and because “open” gatherings can quickly get out of control. Determine the hours of the gathering with your child, and if guests leave early, consider letting them know that they won’t be re-admitted. Consider asking another parent to help you chaperone, especially if the gathering is a large one.